Solitude

Some people judge me a snob just because I do not greet everyone I cross paths with. I may know you but if I don’t feel like greeting you when I see you, I believe that is my prerogative, right? I mean there are days when I feel like being to myself. There are days when greeting someone is an effort by itself and I don’t feel the need to exert an effort to do so.

In all honesty, I am not a snob. I am just a bit moody. And when I feel like being to myself, muttering about equestrian clothing and whatnot, and not greeting anybody, it is my prerogative to do so. Unless you greet me and I ignored you, then I am not a snob. Am I right?

Having so many friends who are already married would mean that you will most likely be the godmother of their first born kids. I really don’t mind at all. I actually feel ecstatic when I am being chosen to act as one. And because of this, I always have a ready set of baby clothes that I can give when I have to attend a christening. I learned this trick while watching Oprah and that wedding planner gave that tip while showing off his house. I realized that is a very useful tip that I can also apply in my life just because I attend a lot of christenings in a year.

I always say that car insurance is a must. I saw on the news a few nights ago the number of vehicular accidents happening in the metro at the moment. Mostly single car accidents involving a concrete barrier and the driver being drunk or sleepy. Always be on the safe side of things. Always. Do not gamble on your life, much less with other people’s lives. Get a car insurance before you drive that car. Accidents happen when you least expect it. Remember that.

We had a small business before. About two years ago, we had to finally surrender and close it. We were financially drowning. What little cash the business had left we had to pull out for my mom’s hospital bills. When my mom passed away and my dad was ready to take on the business again, well, there just wasn’t enough funds left. A Small Business Loan would have surely made a difference but no bank would lend us operating funds again.

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One of the benefits of being a solitary figure is that there is no one who will drone on and on about big cars, used Harleys and men sports to you. No need to pretend you are interested in these things just to accommodate the significant other. No need to put on an effort to listen attentively about topics you are not really interested in. But then again, no one would do the same for you, isn’t it?

I have been reading, hearing and watching about how some people react to commitment and marriage. They find it horrible! I wonder why they react that way. It scares them and makes them feel like a noose is around their necks. This is really foreign to me. Commitment is something that I value most. But it is something that I am not afraid of. Marriage is the same to me.

I am wondering about this because I was reading Breaking Dawn, the fourth book in the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer. The main character, Bella Swan, hyperventilates by just the mere mention of marriage. This series is supposed to be a big hit because it relates to how young adults of this generation. It makes me wonder if marriage is really deplorable for some people considering the rate of marriages over 30 and 40 years of age.

Could someone tell me why some people react horribly to commitment and marriage?

When one is lonely or restless, the trick is to call your friends/buddies and engage them in mindless chat. I tell you, based from experience, this really works. I did this trick so many times in the past already. Always worked for me. Or if you have the money, a trip abroad might do something about it. You can check out reno hotels and book a room at one. I just remembered the invitation my friend in Reno extended to me. Hmm… I might do that a few weeks from now.

One of the professions that I could not see myself in is sales. I just couldn’t summon enough energy to convince people to buy a product or service. Maybe I can if I put my mind in it. I’m good at convincing but I wonder if I do really care. I admire those sales people who are really good at their job. I know quite a lot of people in sales and every time you hear them narrate their day to day work, my admiration for them increases. A friend of mine works as a medical representative and he travels from one city to another daily just to reach his quota at the end of the month. It is doubly hard for them. Now, if you are looking for sales jobs, better be sure you have the tenacity to follow through your work. Otherwise, you are better off doing another job.

One of my all-time favorite movies is The City of Angels. Nicolas Cage played an angel who fell in love with a mortal played by Meg Ryan. It was one of those movies where the sad ending was justified. And it would disappoint if it ended otherwise.

I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than an eternity without it.
- City of Angels

What is your all-time favorite movie?

Have a great week everyone!

Odd emotions are doing a roller coaster inside me. I was looking for unique baby gifts for my godchild when melancholy struck me once again. I saw it coming. This melancholy comes when there is something that triggers my yearning for that elusive something. And my godchild did just that. It will go away soon, I know. But as long as I haven’t found that unique baby gift, I doubt this will lift.

Mobile phones have become the easiest and fastest way to communicate with your loved ones nowadays. Here in the country, almost every person has one. I have two mobile phones with me. One is solely used as an ebook reader. But since it is an unlocked phone, I can choose whether to use it with any leading service provider here in the country. The other phone is used as is. I don’t go out of the house without it because it has become a necessity to reach my loved ones, especially my siblings.

What do you think of mobile phones? Has it become a necessity for you as well?

Jing is a single mom who has two kids to take care of. She is currently besieged with so many problems and to top it off, she also has to undergo acne treatments because her immediate boss ordered her to do so. She is a sales agent and well, her boss has a point. If she will be facing clients most of the time, it is better to do so with an appealing face. She has one but is covered with acne. Her dermatologist is sure that it is due to the unhealthy eating she has been doing lately. That is of course brought on by her other problems. It is a never ending cycle that I hope she gets out of soon. In times like these, someone with whom you can share your burdens with sounds glorious.

I always find that inspiration strikes me unexpectedly. Much like what life has been dealing me with lately. So to make sure that I capture every single idea that comes to mind, I make sure I have my notepad with me and at least two pens with me at all times. I remember an inspiration struck me when I was aboard the local jeepney. I just pulled out my notepad and a pen and I was able to capture the inspiration for my next story.

Here are my Top Droppers with the number of drops they made for the past 30 days…

Big Boys Have Toys Too – 24
A Simple Life - 22
The Journey – 22
People You Need to Know – 22
moms….. check nyo – 21
Robin’s Woods - 20
Say Cheese – 19
So Now What? – 19
Article Specialist – 18
Making sense…(somehow) – 18

Thank you so much for the continued ec dropping guys!

And I would also like to recommend Susan’s Home.

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