Saturday December 6th, 2008

Road to financial freedom

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posted in Check This Out! at 1:12 pm Off
Friday December 5th, 2008

Undecided or hedging?

I must admit that I love reading advice columns. There is this problem that I read about a girl and a divorced guy. The girl is going steady with the divorced guy for more than two years now. She is hoping that they will get married soon. But the guy, coming from an unpleasant marriage is not that excited to jump into another one again. The problem is, the girl is ready to commit and start a family but afraid to voice out her stand to the guy. She understands where he’s coming from but then she’s harboring this fear that he might not marry her at all.

Is he just undecided or averse to the idea of marriage altogether?

I like the advice of the columnist. Better talk it out with the guy right away. Do not wait for another year and then the girl will just find out that her fears came true. If the guy has plans, lay it out now. No more hedging on his part. It’s just fair, right?

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Do you know that Dear Abby column in the past? I read that regularly! I guess being the eldest, not just in our family but also among my numerous cousins, has this effect. You always have a ready suggestion to make, an advice to dish out.

Got any problems I can help you with? Hehe

posted in Dear Bahchi at 2:23 am Off
Thursday December 4th, 2008

Scratch that last post…

I love this theme that I found at SimplyWP! I was checking out different themes when I found out that there is a new release in SimplyWP. Since this blog is all about Solitude, I figured the theme suits :)

What do you think?

Hey, if you want great themes, hop on over to SimplyWP and check out their other free themes!

posted in Rants at 1:04 am 1 Comment
Thursday December 4th, 2008

Temporary theme

My previous theme got corrupted. You might have noticed my two-day absence. That was caused by a WordPress exploit that apparently happened to most blogs using the versions lower than 2.6.5. I like that theme a lot. I think I will just try to revive it. And I do hope I could.

This one that I am using right now will only be a temporary one. I don’t like how light the colors are. But this will do for now. Beggars can’t be choosers, right?

Happy blogging!

posted in Rants at 12:30 am Off
Wednesday December 3rd, 2008

That person…

When I saw him walking towards me, I felt nothing. That was the time I realized that I didn’t love him at all. He told me afterwards, after our dinner, that I didn’t even hug him when we said goodbye. I didn’t even stop him when he was expecting me to try and make him stay an hour or two more. I couldn’t tell him that I felt nothing that time. As in nothing at all except kinda funny inside. Like I was waiting for that moment and then when it came, all I could think about was I ruined everything.

You see, when you are constantly talking to someone, exchanging lifelong dreams and crazy ideas on a daily basis, you think of that person as your soulmate. Not the cheesy one, okay? That person I am talking about could be a person of the same gender, or of the opposite sex. And no romantic angle at all. But then, you have expectations. When you finally meet him or her in person, it could either kill that feeling or seal it. The former happened to me.

I was kicking myself the whole time I was on the road home because I could have avoided that empty feeling. I could have psyched myself more. I could have chosen to be positive about the whole thing.

Then again, maybe it was really headed that way.

Aargh!

posted in Life in General at 12:26 am 1 Comment




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