My friend has become the whining and pushy girlfriend. She’s been like this in her past three relationships. When still in the “dating/courting” stage, she plays it cool. Always the most understanding girl. Always the supportive one. Never complaining. Never demanding anything. One of the boys, as they say.
And then comes the relationship proper.
She becomes demanding! She wants her boyfriend to call or send text messages per schedule. The one she sets. If the guy won’t follow, she’ll pick a fight and when the guy won’t give in, she’ll play her pity-me card.
I’ve seen her in action. Before, and now. The guy eventually gets her game. He’ll slowly extricate himself from her. And then she’ll be left devastated, wondering where she went wrong, why she was not loved like the love she’s giving. Even if you tell her, she won’t admit it. She’s forever in denial. I’m afraid it’s happening to her again. Now.
posted in Every Kind of Love at 1:18 pm