Subtle asking gone wrong.
Scott. That’s his name. He was a co-worker whose desk sat next to mine. He would often come in the morning greeting everyone including me. He would then ask if I had breakfast already and if not could I join him downstairs. I would often come in earlier than him so that would mean I already had breakfast by the time he came in. So I would politely decline his offer and would concentrate on work.
One time, it was around December if I am not mistaken, he asked me if I was doing anything that night. I said I was not sure but I might do some shopping. He said that it’s perfect as he would like to ask me to help him pick a gift for his parents’ wedding anniversary. Probably seeing hesitation on my face, he said that he would buy me dinner and drop me off my house after.
I declined.
I was creeped out! Why would he ask me to accompany him to shop for a gift for his parents when I didn’t even know him that well? We were not friends. We were not close. Why me?
And then years later it hit me. He wanted to go out with me!
Darn stupid me!
Did I mention that he’s one good-looking man? And clean-looking, too! He smelled good and though he was tardy, he’s one fine male specimen. I could have taken a bite or two.
Argh!
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