There’s this guy I know who left everything to follow the mother of his child to the US. He left his life, his family, everything to be with her! He didn’t even think about what would happen to him abroad. He just left his life here in the Philippines. All for love.

It would have been great to end that paragraph with a happy ending. Alas, they didn’t end up together after all. The guy drifted. He was lucky he got an amnesty because he became an illegal immigrant for a time. He couldn’t get a job. He couldn’t follow the girl and his child when they relocated to another state. For a time all he could think about was he threw away his life for

I am glad to tell you that he is fine now. He is slowly recovering from the bad experience. He is friends with the mother of his child and he sees his daughter from time to time. He is now a legal immigrant of the state he is in. He has a job. And he thinks he found the girl he wants to be with.

He traded everything for love but all is not lost.

Tell me
Where did i go wrong?
What did i do to make you change your mind completely
When i thought
This love would never end
But if this love’s not ours to have
I’ll let it go
With your goodbye

I love listening to mellow songs. Love songs. Ballads and so on. Like right now. I’m listening to a string of love songs and I am feeling inspired because of it! It’s times like these that I wish I have someone to share these feelings with. You know, someone to say “I love your smile!” to. Or you make my heart sing! Cheesy lines from hopeless romantics like me.

Or even send heart emoticons to!

♥♥♥

People in love…

Live everyday knowing each other by heart
A power of two leading them through
Like a torch in the dark.

Yesterday love seemed so far away
I never dreamed I could be one of those people in love.

But I found you to give up my love in two
Only you.
I never dreamed we could be…
two of those people in love.

She loves cuddling with him. She loves sharing his warmth. She’s been building this world where there is only him and her. Only the two of them and where everything is perfect. Everything idyllic. A world where there’s only love and nothing else.

Cuddling can really bring that bubble of happiness to her. She feels secure and loved when he cuddles her.

She is still looking for that someone to come into her life and love her for who she is. Her friends are all getting hitched one by one. She doesn’t mind being the single lady but there are days when all she needs is someone she can snuggle with and share thoughts with in the middle of the night. And even that is not given to her.

It will happen. He will come. But when?

I remember when I was young and I was so infatuated with someone. The world was full of color and everything seemed good and perfect. I was carefree and it felt like I could do almost anything! I was young and infatuated.

I wish loving and being infatuated with someone now that I am grown up is still the same. Carefree. And perfect.

Happy weekend everyone!

The three words that more people are having a hard time saying out loud. I Love You.

I am reading a book about two young lovers. The guy was totally in love with the girl. The girl was hooked on him. He kept telling her he loved her. I Love You. The girl had a hard time uttering the words, giving it back to him. In her heart, she loved him but she’s not yet ready to say the words to him. She’s waiting for the right time to come. When? She didn’t know exactly when.

And then the guy died suddenly. She realized that she wasted so much time dilly-dallying about telling him how much she loved him. I Love You. Just three words that were stuck in her mind and heart and were never said out loud. How can she tell him that she actually loved him?

Time was wasted. It won’t ever be returned again. So waste not the precious time you have. Say the words out loud. Now! I Love You. There’s nothing to worry about. If it comes from the heart, then say it. Don’t let the moment pass you by…

Some men ought to be ashamed of themselves! When wooing a woman, they do all their best to win the woman’s heart. During the relationship, they will take pleasure on making love to the woman, not caring whether he might get her pregnant in the process. And when the inevitable happens, he’ll run as fast as he could!

I know someone who was so undecided on what to do with her pregnant girlfriend. Whenever he’s asked about her and their baby, he would turn catatonic. He didn’t want to do anything with the pregnancy. But he was forced to marry the girl by both their parents. He could have said no and just be man enough to tell every one concerned that he will support the woman and his child but he’s not going to marry her. It would have been more honorable to do that.

Than what he’s doing right now. He’s telling their common friends that he was forced to marry and that because of that he is entitled to his pleasures. He is seeing someone behind his wife’s back. He doesn’t want to share in taking care of their child. He hardly ever looks into the welfare of his wife and kid.

Shameful behavior! I hope he will be man enough to own up to his responsibilities. And love the woman who stood by him when he was down.

I’ve always liked older men. I am more drawn to a man’s mind than his looks. I like a man who reads, who can carry a conversation about anything and everything under the sun. I like a man who is a take-charge guy, who can pick me up when I am down, and one who can take care of everything for me.

A man’s good looks will fade as he grows older. When there’s no more sexual drive to obliterate all the inadequacies in a relationship, conversation will sustain the relationship.

An older man will be able to take care of me and won’t back down even if I will turn out to be more dominant than him. That’s what I like in a man. Of course, I am aware age is not a basis for the things I just mentioned. Someone younger than me could end up being my ideal man. I still would like to prefer someone older than me…