I may not be an expert on love but I do know that the best person to love is the one who will love you at your worst and embrace you at your weakest. A person who will be there for you at your most low, helping you to pick yourself up and move on. A person who will think that you are beautiful when you just woke up and who won’t grimace when you have to be sick. That’s the best person to love.

If you find that kind of heart to love, keep it! Don’t let the person go.

Happy Monday!

That’s my goal until I turn 40. Create my own real life love story. Find the man who will love me for me. Be with someone who will cherish me and won’t look at another for the rest of his life.

That’s the love story I want. With a happy ever after and till death do us part.

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If you are single like me and still on the lookout for that guy to fall in love with, then the ‘guide’ above is a useful ‘tool’ for us. We need a man who will do, if not all, some of the things written above.

I would like to add that I want a man who will be faithful and love me for who I am. I want a man who can be trusted even if we’re miles apart.

What are you looking for in a man you want to fall in love with?

Happy weekend!

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Language… has created the word “loneliness” to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word “solitude” to express the glory of being alone.

Are you lonely or plain solitary?

I would like to believe I belong to the second category. I am alone but not lonely. Sure, there are days when I feel I need something more in life but it’s far and few between. And I don’t dwell on it for too long. I am not bitter about life either.

Are you?

Happy Sunday everyone!

I think that when it comes to love, I am always on rocky ground. I can’t seem to find a good man who will love me for who and what I am. It’s hard to find a guy who can love a woman who is better at finding a great read than a fashionable dress. They all go for the sexy ones and the arm candies.

Which is really sad if you think about it. How many of those women can stay true to their man? We’ve often heard of them playing the field, even after getting married and having kids. Even in later years when the kids are older. Ah, I’ve heard of them and I’ve had personal dealings with those women. Of course I am not saying that every good-looking woman is like that.

I am giving myself three more years. After that, if I can’t find a man who will accept me wholeheartedly, then so be it.

I was shocked to find out that every guy friend I have thinks I am kind and prim and proper back in high school. Hahaha. I should be flattered, really. But I don’t know, one really close guy friend of mine whom I haven’t seen for a decade told me the same thing and I got royally annoyed! I don’t know why. But it truly broke my heart. It’s good to be remembered as the good girl in class. But not with him. There’s something wrong with that picture and for the life of me I couldn’t figure it out.

Going out with friends and love ones makes me happy. I am content chatting with them over a good meal. Or even at a great place. But there are times when I feel like going out with someone that interests me. Someone who challenges me. Someone with whom I am not friends or related to.

Those are just off days. Then I realize that love is a fleeting thing.

You never know when love will hit you. It can be now, while typing this entry. I can be chatting with someone from the past and realize suddenly that I actually love the guy! You could be sitting somewhere and a stranger will approach you asking to sit with you. It could blossom into love eventually. Who knows?!

This guy I know often sees a woman coming in for coffee day after day. The cafe they both frequent became a place for love between them to grow. He approached her one day, introduced himself. It turned out they’re working in the same building, at the same floor! They talked and talked some more. Became friends and now… a couple!

Love can hit you anytime, anywhere. Are you ready?

I think we all have to spoil ourselves from time to time. Even once in a while will do. We need to indulge, spend big on ourselves. Go to a spa and get a whole body massage with so many things on the side (foot spa, hand spa, facial, etc.). Go on a holiday by our lonesome and book a suite in a posh resort. Go to a tourist destination and act like we don’t have a care in the world by spending on tourist attractions!

Sure, we will surely find ourselves blowing our savings on one single trip. But hey, we all need those mind-numbing happiness associated with a total indulgence, right? Anyway, money can be earned again. But time lost isn’t.

I need some alone time. Possibly in a place with pristine blue waters and fine sands. In Maldives. Or somewhere in Bora Bora. Or it can be in a nice hotel somewhere in the city. I think all of us need some time alone to be by ourselves. A time when we can hear ourselves think and process thoughts.

That’s what I need now.

Happy Sunday everyone!