I am going back and forth on this trip that my friends and I are planning. We already booked our flights and we already have an itinerary ready. But I am also planning to slim down a bit as the trip will entail a lot of walking around the city we are planning to go to. I am not too sure I can do a lot of walking as I am clearly overweight and in need of appetite suppressants to be able to shed off even just a pound or two.

I want to go but a part of me is dreading that I won’t be able to keep up with my friends. And one of my friends is bringing her boyfriend with him! Double the dread!

Thinking…

Remember from my previous post I talked about a dating site that my girl friends and I are planning to open very soon? It is a GO! We are buying three desktop computers for the three persons always manning the site. One of those desktop computers will be given to me as I am the one almost always online of all of us. The two will sit in Mitzi’s flat as she’s the one accessible anytime. She’s alone in her flat so even if we knock at her door in the middle of the night or at three in the morning, no one will get mad at us but her.

The dating site is a GO and we are excited about it!

My girl friends and I are all hopeless romantics. We love reading and discussing about romance. I can safely say that all four of us have become experts in relationships over the years. We were tossing ideas back and forth one night over cups of coffee when we thought of opening a web site where we can share our experiences and ‘expertise’ on love and romance. A dating web site, perhaps? And then we got excited we ended up talking about the technicalities of such an endeavor which included a cheap website hosting plan.

Since my friends know that I am almost always online, they assigned me to check our web hosting reviews so that we can make a decision as to which hosting company we will get a plan from. We want a reliable web host. We want a dedicated server as we really plan to work on the site’s traffic right away. We want customer service support always on standby ready to help customers from a very simple cpanel problem to a very complicated one. Good thing I found WebHostingColumns.com where there is a list of cheap web hosting companies. Perfect for what we are looking for. Now I am off to read what each company has to offer. I think we will make a decision this weekend.

The photo above is so cute that I know I need to post it.

You know in love there really are no rules to follow. We can kiss whomever we want and love whomever we want to. Gone are the days when society will dictate someone unsuitable for you. These days, there are so many ways for a love affair to prosper.

You can kiss a dog all you want even if you are a cat!

Happy Wednesday!

My friend who lives in a very cold place relies heavily on snow chains when she goes out of the house. The place is cold almost the whole year round and snow can be as thick as waist deep at times. Good thing there are snow cleaners the local community employs to help with the situation.

Truth be told I cannot imagine myself living in a very cold place. I am from the tropics so I am used to the warmth of the sun more than the cold. And when it gets cold, it’s not that cold at all.

I think I will get aches and pains and cramps if I live where my friend does.

Language… has created the word “loneliness” to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word “solitude” to express the glory of being alone.

Are you lonely or plain solitary?

I would like to believe I belong to the second category. I am alone but not lonely. Sure, there are days when I feel I need something more in life but it’s far and few between. And I don’t dwell on it for too long. I am not bitter about life either.

Are you?

Happy Sunday everyone!

I think that when it comes to love, I am always on rocky ground. I can’t seem to find a good man who will love me for who and what I am. It’s hard to find a guy who can love a woman who is better at finding a great read than a fashionable dress. They all go for the sexy ones and the arm candies.

Which is really sad if you think about it. How many of those women can stay true to their man? We’ve often heard of them playing the field, even after getting married and having kids. Even in later years when the kids are older. Ah, I’ve heard of them and I’ve had personal dealings with those women. Of course I am not saying that every good-looking woman is like that.

I am giving myself three more years. After that, if I can’t find a man who will accept me wholeheartedly, then so be it.

Miranda is looking for sexy time with her partner. She wants to buy lingerie and sexy costumes she can entice him with. But she is not confident enough to do all of it. She is chubby. Her weight is making her feel all wrong about the sexy time she has in mind. When she consulted her best friend about it, she told her that it’s time for her to consider weight loss diet pills. Now’s the time for her to try it out and see the benefits of a slimmer body. Of course, one of those benefits will be a more confident Miranda inside the bedroom.

Slim9 is a good diet pill for those who are looking for something all-natural. I know many women are wary of trying out weight loss products but Slim9 is made up of herbal extracts like green tea, acai berry, ginseng, and more. Benefits of taking it are increased metabolism, improved digestion, more energy and a great stamina. Can you imagine what Slim9 can do to those who will combine intake of the diet pills with exercise and proper diet?

Miranda badly needs her sexy time. She will try out Slim9 as soon as possible and she is hoping that she can lose weight fast!

I believe that when you get committed to someone, settle down, get married, or vowed to be with another for the rest of your life, you really believe in your heart that you will turn gray together. Who wants to be alone in life? I don’t.

This woman I know was in a relationship with a guy for ten years before finally settling down when she was already in her late 30′s. She loves the guy so much that she even tried to have a baby for him. Three miscarriages later, she stopped trying. Still, she is doing her best to serve him and show him her unending love. She told me not once but a couple of times in the past that she can’t go on in life without her husband. She just couldn’t live without him. She plans to turn gray and wrinkled with him at her side.

Lately, seeing them together, it made me think of my own future. Will I turn gray alone? No, I am not lonely and I don’t think I will be lonely being alone. But it’s still so much better to have someone by your side when you can no longer function properly.

They both have web cameras always ready. They chat via mobile phone and the web daily. It’s not easy maintaining a cyber relationship but with Cody and Wella, what started as a friendship over a blog debate became something that blossomed into a beautiful relationship. It’s been over a year now, Cody’s managed to secure a visa to go to the country to visit Wella within the month. Both are excited to take their relationship to the next level.

They are hoping that nothing will change when they see each other in person for the first time. It took them a while but now that it’s in the offing, both are nervous and excited over the meet up.